Oh wow, didn't actually thought women played eroge/visual novels.
My opinion: veryyyy interesting
Like you, i also prefer an awesome story with a good character cast to back it all up in my visual novels, although i also play the ones with "h-scenes", i'm still a guy after all.
Hell in my top 10 visual novel list, only 3 of them contain (mild) h scenes.
And no, i don't know of any other female eroge-otaku,but i will definitly watch that anime now.